My mother and I recently realized that we have curly hair (crazy right? at least it only took me 21 years to her 50) and have no idea what to do with it. What products to use, ways to keep frizz at bay, to shampoo or not to shampoo? 

This is just a general question/asking for recs on what products you guys use and how to style. Note that my hair texture is very fine strands with a loose curl.